Today we are going back to sexual attraction and intimacy.
Challenge #19- Tease eachother
Choose a period of time (1 day, 5 days, 7 days, 1 month) based upon the frequency that you are currently having sex (it’s different for every couple) . Give yourselves a sex ban for that period or time. Here are the rules.
- You may not have sex
- You may (& should) openly communicate about any feelings of desire or sexual arousal that you experience.
- Provocatively touch each other a specific amount of time depending on the length of time (once every couple hours if it’s a day, once a day if it’s longer) but without having sex (including oral sex & masturbation)
- Share something that turns you on via text, email or voice mail when you are apart (ie. text a fantasy)
- After the period is over have sex.
Benefit- The build up of anticipation can lead to a more intense experience