Relationship challenge #19

Today we are going back to sexual attraction and intimacy.

Challenge #19- Tease eachother

Choose a period of time (1 day, 5 days, 7 days, 1 month) based upon the frequency that you are currently having sex (it’s different for every couple) . Give yourselves a sex ban for that period or time. Here are the rules.

  • You may not have sex
  • You may (& should) openly communicate about any feelings of desire or sexual arousal that you experience.
  • Provocatively touch each other a specific amount of time depending on the length of time (once every couple hours if it’s a day, once a day if it’s longer) but without having sex (including oral sex & masturbation)
  • Share something that turns you on via text, email or voice mail when you are apart (ie. text a fantasy)
  • After the period is over have sex.

Benefit- The build up of anticipation can lead to a more intense experience


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